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What Dog Kisses Really Mean: Unpacking the Love Behind the Licks


Ken Botts from Creekside Critters Pet Sitters getting a dog kiss

Dog owners know that there are few things more heartwarming than a big, slobbery kiss from their furry friend. But have you ever stopped to wonder what those affectionate licks really mean? Are they always signs of love, or is there more behind those puppy kisses? Let’s dive into what dog kisses actually signify and why they might be more complex than just a display of affection.


  1. A Sign of Affection: The most obvious interpretation of a dog’s kiss is affection. Just like humans hug, dogs lick to show love and bond with their owners. It’s their way of saying, “I’m happy to be with you.” In the wild, wolves and other canine species often lick each other to strengthen social bonds. So when your dog showers you with kisses, it’s their way of creating that same sense of closeness.


  2. A Way of Exploring: Dogs experience the world through their mouths. Licking is a way for them to gather information about their environment. Your scent and taste are unique to them, and licking you is a method of exploration. If you’ve been away from home, your dog might kiss you more when you return, as they’re curious about where you’ve been and who you’ve interacted with.


  3. A Display of Submissive Behavior: In some cases, dog kisses can indicate submission. In canine packs, subordinates often lick the dominant members as a sign of respect. If your dog is licking you, especially around your face or hands, they may be showing deference and acknowledging you as the leader of their pack.


  4. A Way to Relieve Stress or Anxiety: Licking can be a self-soothing behavior for dogs. If your dog is stressed or anxious, you might notice them licking themselves or you more frequently. In these situations, your dog’s kisses might be their way of calming down. If your dog’s licking seems excessive, it’s important to watch for other signs of anxiety or distress, and consider consulting with a veterinarian or behaviorist.


  5. A Need for Attention or Care: Sometimes, dogs lick because they want something. It could be food, a belly rub, or simply your undivided attention. If your dog licks you and then stares expectantly, it’s possible they’re trying to communicate a need. This behavior may be especially noticeable in puppies who are learning to interact with humans.


  6. A Taste for Salt: Believe it or not, dogs may lick you because they like the taste of your skin. Human skin has trace amounts of salt, which can be appealing to dogs. So while your dog might be giving you what appears to be a loving kiss, they might also be satisfying their taste buds.


When Kisses Become Too Much: While most dog kisses are harmless and endearing, some dogs can go overboard with their licking. If your dog is constantly licking you or others, it could be a sign of underlying behavioral or health issues, like anxiety or a compulsive disorder. In these cases, it’s a good idea to consult a vet or a professional dog trainer to ensure your dog’s well-being.


How to Encourage or Discourage Licking: If you love dog kisses and want to encourage your dog’s affectionate licks, give them praise or rewards when they do it. On the other hand, if you’d prefer less licking, gently redirect your dog’s attention when they start licking by offering them a toy or engaging them in another activity.


Dog kisses are a beautiful and multifaceted form of communication. Whether it’s affection, submission, curiosity, or a desire for attention, understanding the reasons behind your dog’s kisses can deepen the bond you share. So the next time your dog gives you a big, slobbery kiss, take a moment to appreciate the love—and the meaning—behind it.


About Creekside Critters Pet Sitters: Creekside Critters Pet Sitters is the premier pet care provider serving the Tarrant county cites of Fort Worth, Benbrook, White Settlement, River Oaks, Lake Worth, and Azle. We understand the importance of your pets, and strive to provide peace of mind for you when you can't be there. Our experienced pet sitters offer in-home pet sitting, dog walking, cat care, and bird care services tailored to meet your pet's specific needs. With a team of trained and passionate animal lovers, we ensure your pets receive the love, attention, and exercise they deserve. Contact us for reliable and personalized pet care.

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